Things to do besides think about a man!

We have all been there. We were feeling someone and everything was cool and then boom you’re not sure what happened or what went wrong but you are now being ignored or even ghosted. I have said so many times and I will say it again. Match his energy. But I also know we are human and it is easier done than said. So when he’s on your mind and you want to text, call or even do a drive by (don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about!) get out your feelings, block him and turn your phone off and do something else! Suggestions are below lol.

  • Clean your room or your house
  • Read a good book
  • Start a blog or make a new blog post
  • Start a business
  • Go back to school or finish that paper you were working on
  • Research and start a new career
  • Journal
  • Go to church
  • Pray for yourself and others
  • Volunteer (at a woman’s shelter)
  • Cook a good meal or bake something and eat it without guilt (allow yourself grace!)
  • Babysit
  • Exercise
  • Take a long walk
  • Take a road trip
  • Travel to your dream place alone
  • Go to the nursing home and visit (you might gain some wisdom in the process)
  • Cook a meal and bring it to a single mama
  • Visit loved ones
  • Make a bomb ass playlist
  • Organize a space in your home
  • Watch your favorite movie
  • Watch ratchet TV and be happy that isn’t your life lol
  • Read your bible (read Ester, Ruth or the Song of Solomon)
  • Write a 100xs you will not text or call him!
  • Go shopping or window shopping
  • Call your mama or daddy
  • Call, FaceTime or Skype a friend and have a good laugh or cry
  • Make a new friend
  • Send nice comments to your social media peeps
  • Take yourself out on a date
  • Take a hot long bubble bath
  • Play with some toys LOL
  • Donate something (clothes, time or money)
  • Research and start a new hobby
  • Wash and clean your car
  • Have a dance party
  • Hug and kiss on your kids
  • Buy yourself flowers
  • Go to Dollar Tree or your local dollar store
  • Decorate a space in your home
  • Put flowers on a loved ones grave
  • Paint your nails and toes
  • Wash and style your hair
  • Put on something cute and sexy
  • Look in the mirror
  • And remember you are worthy of the best!!!

Love Ricki

Author: rickiloves

Welcome to my blog, I'm Ricki! I always wanted to share my love for fashion and beauty and a few other things so I finally took the leap and did it! I am almost 40, a wife, mother of 4 and work in progress! I hope to show you with all that life brings your way, you can still be stylish and beautiful! No matter your age, shape, size, budget or imitations I hope to show you that you can always be the best version of you!

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